Okay, I’ve got a code word question for all you animals out there, both anonymous and named… and you must answer how you actually feel, not as you would like to feel.
In short, what is your soul’s take on modern American monogamy? In specific, do you wish you could enter an arrangement by which you and your partner are monogamous in all things, but occasional sex with other people is totally okay?
UPDATE (thurs morn)…
The answers to this have been awesome, but let me add a few caveats:
• let’s assume all sex is safe (conditions are met that nullify all fears)
• as mentioned by “butterfly”, the occasional sex in question cannot be with someone whom your partner knows
• to be clear, both parties in this scenario – you and your partner – have agreed to this arrangement
I’m interested to see how this jibes with this infamous blog from last year-